Barnsley Counselling Services Tracy Simpson · MBACP
Stress & burnout

Stress & burnout counselling in Barnsley

When you’re running on empty and can’t picture how things change, talking it through with someone outside the situation can help.

If this sounds familiar

When 'coping' is all you're doing

  • You get through the day and have nothing left by the evening
  • Sleep doesn't seem to recharge you any more
  • Small things land much harder than they used to
  • You can't remember when you last properly switched off

Burnout builds up slowly, and it eases that way too

I'll help you look at what's been draining you, and at the habits and expectations underneath it, not just the workload. From there we work out what can realistically change, and how you start protecting your own limits.

Counselling offers support and space to work things through. It isn't a medical treatment or a quick fix.

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People often come to talk about

  • Work pressure that has stopped feeling manageable
  • Tiredness that rest doesn't fix
  • Losing interest in things you used to enjoy
  • Feeling short-tempered with the people you care about
  • A sense of failing at everything at once

You don't need to tick every one of those, or wait until you've properly broken down. Feeling like this is reason enough.

The approach

We'll look at what's driving the exhaustion, which is often as much about expectations and habits as it is about workload itself, and work out what can realistically change.

Counselling isn't a medical treatment and I can't promise a particular outcome. In sessions, you get space to think clearly about a situation you're too close to, and practical support in protecting your own limits.

Sessions can help with:

  • Working out what's actually driving the exhaustion, not just the symptoms
  • Practical changes to protect your time and energy
  • Untangling work pressure from what's happening in the rest of your life
  • Rebuilding rest that actually recharges you
  • Deciding what needs to change, and what's realistic to change first

Work-related stress

For a lot of people, work is where the pressure starts. Signs it's getting too much include:

  • Dreading Sunday evenings, or not sleeping before a working day
  • Checking emails late at night and first thing in the morning
  • Making mistakes you wouldn't normally make
  • Snapping at colleagues, or avoiding them
  • Getting ill on days off, or feeling guilty for taking them

Employers have a legal duty to protect workers from stress at work by doing a risk assessment and acting on it, according to the Health and Safety Executive. If work is the cause, it can help to raise it with your manager or HR, or to ask your GP about a fit note. Counselling gives you space to work out what you want to change and how to say it.

I'm a Registered Member of the BACP (45587) and an Accredited Registrant with the NCPS (NCS20-00911), and I work within the BACP Ethical Framework.

What happens in sessions

You can start with a free 10-minute call, or book a session straight away if you already know you'd like to. The call has no forms and no commitment. You tell me a little about what's going on, I tell you how I'd work with it, and you decide whether it feels right.

Sessions are 50 minutes, usually weekly to start. There's no fixed number of sessions and no contract tying you in.

What you tell me is confidential, with the standard exceptions every counsellor works to around serious risk of harm. I'll explain exactly how that works before we begin.

Clear, upfront pricing

Fees, no surprises

Start with a free 10-minute call, or book a session directly.

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Individual

1-to-1 counselling

£70 / 50-min session

In person in Barnsley, by video or by phone.

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Couples

Relationship counselling

£90 / 50-min session

For partners working things through together.

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Workplace

For employers

£80 / 50-min session

Usually booked in blocks of 6–8 sessions.

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Supervision

For counsellors

£75 / session (90 mins)

Reflective practice for qualified counsellors.

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Registered to accept referrals from Bupa and Aviva. Please check any policy excess with your provider before booking.

Your options, in full

Private counselling with me is one way through this, not the only one. Here's the full picture for stress and burnout, so you can decide what's right for you.

Your GP. Worth speaking to if stress or burnout is affecting your sleep, appetite or physical health, or if it's tipped into something that feels like it needs medical attention.

NHS Talking Therapies. Free, and you can usually refer yourself without going through your GP first, if you're registered with a GP and aged 18 or over (16 in some areas). Barnsley Talking Therapies takes self-referrals on 01226 644900.

Your employer. If work is the main driver, it's worth checking what support your employer already offers, such as an Employee Assistance Programme. I also offer workplace counselling that employers can arrange directly.

You don't have to pick just one. If you're not sure what's right, that's exactly what the free 10-minute call is for.

Barnsley Talking Therapies

For free NHS talking therapy, self-referral.

01226 644900

Where I work

I see people in person in private counselling rooms within the South Yorkshire Physiotherapy Centre, Day Street, Barnsley, S70 1NW, and by video or telephone anywhere in the UK.

Good to know

Questions people ask

What are the symptoms of stress?

Common signs include poor sleep, headaches, a racing mind, irritability, feeling overwhelmed and finding it hard to switch off. Some people eat or drink more, or pull away from others. If the symptoms are physical or new, see your GP to rule out other causes. Signs of burnout.

How long does burnout last?

It varies a lot from person to person. It tends to take longer the longer you've been running on empty, and it depends on whether the cause changes. I can't promise a timescale, but counselling can help you work out what needs to change.

Can I be signed off work with stress?

For up to seven days off sick you don't need a fit note. After that, your GP or another healthcare professional can give you one if stress means you're not fit for work. Counselling can run alongside time off and help you plan what you need before you go back. GOV.UK: taking sick leave.

Can my employer pay for counselling?

Some employers pay for counselling directly, or through an employee assistance programme. It's worth asking HR. I work with employers and employee assistance programmes. Workplace counselling.

What's the difference between stress and burnout?

There's no strict clinical line between them. Stress usually still feels manageable day to day; burnout is more like running on empty, where even things you used to enjoy stop feeling worth the effort. Either is a reasonable reason to talk to someone.

Can counselling help if the problem is my job?

Yes, even if the job itself doesn't change. We can look at what's realistic to change, what support is already available through your employer, and how to protect your own limits either way.

How many sessions will I need?

There's no fixed number. Some people find a handful of sessions is enough; others come for longer. You're not tied into a contract and can stop when it feels right.

Is it confidential?

Yes, within the standard limits of confidentiality, which I'll explain before we begin.

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